1st Problem: Online Dating is time consuming.
It doesn’t take long for any newcomer to an online dating site to figure out that writing more messages increases the chance of getting responses. The more emails and correspondences, the more dates. In fact, only 27% of people (on average) respond to first emails. To make matters worse, getting a response does not mean that you will actually end up going on a date. So it is clear, the more time that you spend corresponding, the more dates you will get.
It’s been confirmed that it takes an average of six hours spent searching through profiles, emailing prospective matches, wading through singles, reading and deleting emails, instant messaging just to cultivate one date.
In an effort to cut the ratio of time spent on a dating site to actually going on a date; singles are spending less time evaluating profiles and reviewing photos but at the same time evaluating and corresponding to more profiles. Women spent an average of 84 seconds evaluating a profile, while men spent only about 58 seconds.
Singles cruise through profile after profile and send more introductory messages in order to increase their chance of getting responses. This causes an influx of messages on inboxes. Evaluating the profiles of potential dates that have sent you emails trying to impress you with flattering responses, and passing by or deleting emails from bad prospects are time consuming. No wonder most singles don’t show the courtesy to respond to emails on online dating sites. Aint nobody got time for that.
With CharityDateAuction.org, no more wading through emails of individuals trying to impress you, or instant messaging to cultivate one real-life date. You will only receive correspondences from potential dates that you have approved as your date-auction winner(s). After you decide who the winner(s) of your date-auction are, you are free to send and receive email messages, IM, and Skype.
2nd Problem: Your odds of going on a second date are slim.
For those who have time on their hands and don’t mind the effort of sending hundreds of emails, they are rewarded by going on dates knowing that someone better is always standing right next to them.
More often than not, singles embark on a pleasant night out, get about halfway through and start thinking about what else is available. Each individual “fine” date ceases to matter when it’s part of a long-tail strategy. After a while, every one feels crushingly familiar, momentarily appealing and mediocre, and low-stakes. No wonder why your odds of going on a second date are slim.
But what if you could improve your chances of going on a second date? What if you could make a positive first impression on your first date? Many people say that a first impression is everything. It is just human nature to rely on a first impression. Everyone knows that they do it, and everyone knows that it is not right. Once your date gets an idea of who you are, it is hard for them to leave that idea.
Sometimes, a first impression may not be a bad thing, such as having a first impression of you as being a humanitarian, caring and informed about your cause or a successful and generous philanthropist. Meeting your date through CharityDateAuction.org gives you you that first impression that you really need so that you have a better chance of your date liking you – and going on a second date with you.
3rd Problem: How serious is your date about you?
Many online daters are voyeurs and just “pick and click” — that is, browse, email and chat. The endless supply of fresh faces, just an email away, knowing that someone better is always standing right next to them.
More often than not, singles embark on a pleasant enough night out, get about halfway through and start thinking about what else is now available. Each individual “fine” date ceases to matter when it’s part of a long-tail strategy. After a while, everyone feels crushingly familiar, momentarily appealing and mediocre, and low-stakes.
Dating is something you should be excited about, and it’s less exciting when there’s a forum where so many people are ambivalent to dating you. It’s so much better to go out with someone because you can’t wait to be around them.
4th Problem: Actions speak louder than words
How many times in the past have your dates misrepresented themselves to you. It’s one thing when your dates lie a few years about their age, a few inches about their height, or few pounds about their weight. But if they mislead you on their core values, such as generosity, success, caring for the less fortunate, it is something else entirely. Also, being successful and rich does not mean that your date is also generous.
So how can you measure up your dates? Are taking their word or trusting your instinct the only ways? Anyone can pretend to be rich, successful, generous and caring. But how could you find out if your dates actually pose the values that are important to you? You obviously can’t ask your date for material stuff as that is not classy and your date might label you as a “a gold digger.”
The answer is CharityDateAuction.org. You will know from the start that your dates are generous and caring because they have contributed to your favorite charity.
5th Problem: Using online dating sites is not fun.
The abundance of choices you’re confronted with on online dating sites are overwhelming. Searching for potential mates resembles shopping. The time and effort it takes to get a date online makes it almost not worthwhile. The rejections and non-replies to your correspondences can take its toll on you. But there is no doubt that an auction is entertainment at its finest. Dating and auctions go together like milk and cookies. Auctions make online dating fun and entertaining.
6th Problem: Your profile is lost in the thousands of other profiles
With so many online profiles that basically say the same thing, it’s hard to have your online profile stand out. But auctions make your online dating profile stand out. Auctions draw attention to your profile and get you noticed.
7th Problem: Dating sites are expensive.
Unlike other dating sites that charge an arm and a leg so that you can meet thousands of quality singles on your journey for love, CharityDateAuction.org is free and offers no advertising. We only charge a low monthly subscription for bidders that are not holding their own date-auction.
Give CharityDateAuction.org a chance and you’ll find yourself spending less time online and more time in the real dating world while helping worthy causes.